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Feng Shui FAQ Part 1

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Common Questions, Answered by Lois Kramer-Perez

Have a Feng Shui question you’ve always wondered about? You’re not alone. Here are answers to some of the questions I hear most often, separating fact from fantasy.

What does “Feng Shui” actually mean?

“Feng Shui” translates to “Wind Water.” Wind is the energy you feel, Water is the energy you see. The principles of Feng Shui create a harmonious relationship between the energy you see and the energy you feel. It began in China thousands of years ago, starting with “form” siting homes and graves. That foundation is still used today, alongside directions, colors, shapes, elements, objects, and timing.

Is it true you should never use the number 4 in Feng Shui?

Not exactly. The number 4 has a “bad luck” reputation because the Chinese word for “four” sounds like death, a meaningful connection for anyone of Chinese culture. But in Feng Shui, the actual significance of the number 4 is southeast, the “tree element,” which relates to Fortunate Blessings and Prosperity. Four bamboo stalks placed in the southeast, for example, nourish fortunate blessings, which in turn nourishes reputation, recognition, and passion.

Does keeping the toilet lid closed really protect your money?

Feng Shui always promotes safe and healthy living, so closing the lid when you flush is a good habit regardless. But the deeper truth is about the water itself: bathrooms hold a lot of water, and water relates to wealth. A clogged drain can be a metaphor for money not coming: what are you neglecting or stuck on. A dripping faucet can mean money is slowly leaking away, maybe from an old subscription still on autopay. The real fix is simple: keep bathrooms clean, keep pipes maintained, and yes, close the lid.

Is it bad Feng Shui to have a mirror facing your front door?

Generally, yes. A mirror placed directly opposite the front door isn’t recommended, because when you open the door, the mirror reflects the incoming energy right back out. The front door is known as the “Mouth of Chi” (Chi meaning energy), and it’s meant to welcome in health, wealth, and opportunity, not send it back out before it arrives. That said, mirrors aren’t bad on their own. Placed on a side wall in an open foyer, a mirror can beautifully balance and expand the space.

Why shouldn’t you sit with your back to the door?

Feng Shui recommends the “Command Position”: sitting with your back to a solid wall, with a clear view of the door. When your back is to a door or opening, your central nervous system can go on subtle alert, sensing you’re unprotected, even if you’re not consciously aware of it. Most people find they feel more comfortable and productive once they switch to the Command Position. Ever notice where you sit at a restaurant or where you can choose your seat in a public space or around a table? Is your back to the door?
I think not!

Is Feng Shui a religion?

No, Feng Shui is not a religion, though it has roots in Taoism and the belief that everything carries energy. “Form Feng Shui” began thousands of years ago in China as a practical system for siting gravesites and homes safely. There’s a reason behind every Feng Shui principle, and it’s practiced in many different ways, some more spiritual, some purely practical. A certified practitioner can help you find the approach that’s right for you. So, Feng Shui is not a religion yet it can help you deepen your personal spirituality.

Does placing a 3-legged frog by the front door really bring money?

Icons and objects in Feng Shui work by connecting to your subconscious. My favorite traditional story behind the 3-legged frog: a farmer walking along his way, pauses to rescue a 3-legged frog from a well, and then continues on his merry way. From that day on, the farmer wakes up each morning to find gold coins under his pillow, a reminder that giving without expectation is rewarded beyond measure. If seeing your frog reminds you to be generous and live in gratitude, it can absolutely be meaningful. The truth is this: objects are only as powerful as the actions and behaviors they inspire in you. It’s not about the object, it’s about what the object moves you to do.

Which direction should my bed face?

This is the question I get asked more than almost any other! The truth is, there’s no single “right” direction that works for everyone, it depends on you, your birth information, and what’s happening in your life right now. What I can tell you universally is this: your bed should be in the Command Position. That means a solid wall behind you, a clear view of the door, and NOT lined up directly with the door or tucked under a window. Beyond that? Let’s talk about your specific direction on a consultation, because this is exactly where “one size fits all” Feng Shui falls apart.

Is clutter really that big a deal in Feng Shui, or is that just a design trend?

Oh, it’s a big deal, and I prefer not to “name” stuff “clutter”. The items in your space are relative to you and where you are in your life.  In Feng Shui, when there is too much stuff in your space which challenges the ability to walk easily without twisting & turning & bumping, is stuck energy. This goes for the drawers or closets or rooms that are avoided too! Every “I’ll deal with it later” is chi that can’t move, and chi that can’t move can’t bring you anything new. I always tell clients: you can’t invite in what you want more of if there’s no room for it to land. Clearing space isn’t just about a tidy home for the sake of tidy, it’s about making space, literally and energetically, for the next chapter.

Still have a Feng Shui question? Schedule your free Discover Your Shui call or grab my free e-book for more.

Sharin’ the shui,

Lois

what is sitting in your future

The Shui of Life

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Last week I talked about the wind — the feng of feng shui. The wind is the energy we can’t see, yet we know it’s always there — in our environment, in our person, always with us.

The shui of feng shui is the water — representing all of the physical things we see in our space. Consciously or not, all of the objects in our space are always speaking to us.

Imagine walking in the door as you come home every day. There are lots of conversations happening all around you. Things you’ve decided you just won’t notice — even though you don’t like them, or they annoy you — are speaking pretty loud. Very often we attribute our feelings to things we expected to affect us throughout the day, when actually we’re walking into a babble of information from all the stuff surrounding us.

Sometimes it’s not so obvious. It may even be things in the closets or the drawers — stuff hidden away in storage, things we haven’t seen in years. Did you know that the location where we store our “stuff” has a relationship to the times in our life? The attics, upper floors, and upper shelves represent our future. The midway shelves and mid-floors represent our present. Basements and lower shelves represent our past. Think about how you organize a bookshelf: what you use every day is easily accessible, usually on the midlevel. When you complete something, you might file it away or put it on the lower shelves. The top shelves are for what is to come later.

When I learned about this concept, I took a look at what I had on the very top shelf in my office: a box of leftover wedding invitations, response cards, and menus from my wedding in 1982. I actually had my past in my future. At the time it made sense — my husband Ray had only passed a few years earlier, so I wasn’t ready to let go of the past. Recognizing the metaphor, I kept just one invitation and one menu from our 1982 wedding, placed them in our wedding album, which I had in a storage box in the family room (almost the lowest level), and made a clear path for my future.

Energy is everywhere, in everything. The truth is, we have the ability to create the environment that gives us the energy to feel the way we choose to feel.

We are getting messages all the time, and we are the writers of these stories. Are these stories serving you well? Are you getting the messages that you want to feel? Do you want to change the stories? Begin by changing your space. This doesn’t mean a complete overhaul — start by creating what I call “fabulous firsts.” The first thing you see when you wake up in the morning, sitting in your favorite chair, and especially when you come into your home. Does what you see give you the feelings you want to feel? This is a good starting point — the rest will follow.

I would love to hear about your experiences. And one more tip: when you are feeling distracted, not able to concentrate, check out your silverware drawer in the kitchen. Take a few minutes to straighten it out, clear out the crumbs — it will do wonders for you!

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Why Some Homes Feel Lucky By Lois Kramer-Perez, C.Ht.

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Why do some homes feel lucky? Is it the lucky number 9? Is it the red door? Could it be a water fountain on the front lawn? Or is it that gentle winding path leading to the front door.

What’s the first thing you notice when you enter a home – is it “Ooooh what a feeling” that something-something that just feels right or does it feel like the energy is flat, empty or eh?

I am describing my favorite tip: create fabulous firsts: the experience you have approaching your home, as you enter through the front door… what is that feeling?

Let’s break some of these things down:

“I need a red door to be lucky” – it depends!  Is the color of your house enhanced with a red door? A red door on a yellow looks like scrambled eggs with ketchup to me, wouldn’t be my first choice. We can also look at the classical feng shui principles; A red door is the fire element: if your front door faces South, the direction of the fire element: you are enhancing that area. If your front door faces Southwest the direction earth element, a red fire door will nourish the Southwest because fire nourishes earth in the productive 5 element cycle. 
Give your front door the love it deserves. Make that first experience through your front door fabulous.

That gentle winding or meandering path leading to the front door. Ahh feels lovely to slow down, enjoy the journey, calming your energy, opening your awareness to enjoy the surroundings as you make your way to meet your host feel fabulous coming home.

Moving water is a metaphor for money. A strategically placed water fountain bringing the water towards the house is the principle for welcoming money into the home.

And speaking of water — while a fountain at your entrance is a beautiful symbol of welcoming money in, the most important water in your home is the kind you don’t see: the pipes, the drains, the everyday flow that keeps your home healthy & flowing effortlessly.

Giving love to your bathrooms, sinks, toilets, pipes are a key to luck for money: leaky pipes are a clue money is leaking out of your pockets’, clogged pipes are a clue money blocked from coming into your pockets: ponder what actions you have contributed to stimulating these alerts! Repair what needs repairing and take proactive steps in your actions to remedy your money situation.

I want a house with the number 9! Yes 9 is a fabulous number: passionate, vibrant, fun, transformational, spotlighting recognition & reputation. 9 is especially powerful since we moved into a new 20 year “9 fire period” in 2024. It may not be practical to only buy a house with the number 9 or multiples of 9, what you can do is to be creative with using the number 9 – plant 9 shrubs, 9 planters with red plants or 9 lights along the path, you get the picture.

Have you noticed the common denominator in all these ideas about what feels like a lucky home? You! Your relationship with your home, from the everyday experience you have coming home, entering through the front door, sitting in your favorite chair, waking up in the morning & so on & so on.

Remember that common denominator in all of the scenarios— you? That’s exactly why feng shui isn’t one-size-fits-all. A red door might be perfect for one home and completely off for another. Nine planters might be powerful for one person and meaningless for the next. Googling will give you general information, but feng shui at its best is a conversation between principles, the space, and the specific “YOU” living in it. The details matter tremendously — and getting them right is what turns a house into a home that truly feels like YOURS and truly feels LUCKY.

Lois Kramer-Perez, CHt. Shares her tools using simple techniques for awareness, clarity and empowerment, creating change from the inside out. https://loiskramerperez.com/ Questions about this article: lois@loiskramerperez.com or Schedule Your FREE Discover Your Shui Call with Lois http://callwithlois.com

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Energy in Motion Feng Shui Flow & Finding Inner Harmony

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I enjoyed this conversation with Deb & Deana, Balance Your Life Wellness Gala

Let us know your thoughts!

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Enjoy A Stress-Free Holiday Season with Feng Shui by Lois Kramer-Perez

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Here we are amidst the holiday season once again. It is so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of it all, we find ourselves moving so quickly, we miss the joy connecting to the moments. What can we do?

Feng Shui principles create support in our life, wonderful tools to help us stay organized and grounded so to enjoy this festive fast paced time of year. 
Here are some Feng Shui Tips to get us started.

Our Front Door 
Use the front door. Be sure it is easy to open. Make it inviting, add color and sparkle.
Our front door is our face to the world, it represents how we are moving along in our life journey, let’s create a joyous and welcoming experience.

Movement and Flow
Movement should be effortless throughout our home, meandering like a stream of water flowing easily from room to room with ample space around furniture and objects. As we enter the season of winter, the element of water, we connect to the energy of adaptability and flow, it is the perfect time to dream of our hearts desires and make plans for the coming New Year. Connecting to the feelings of our thoughts and dreams, we can make it so!

It’s Good To Be Alive
Plants, flowers and trees bring life into our space, we use them to remind us how blessed we are to be alive. Embrace the sense of unconditional giving, how good it feels to show kindness to others. That which we give away with compassion, without expectation, is what we reap 1,000 times over. The energy of life brings forth an enthusiasm for action, nourishing our ideas, supporting our ability to go-go-go!

Let There Be Light! ‘Tis the season of parties and celebrations, filling our spirits with joy and excitement. We keep our fires burning from within, by surrounding ourselves with items that create a sparkling festive mood. Decorate with objects which bring joy, and don’t forget to don our favorite holiday gear. A sense of whimsy is always welcome to help us when we find ourselves too serious. Be spontaneous! Laugh, dance and sing! ‘Tis the season to be jolly.

Grounded and Secure We find comfort and stability when we have a place to feel cozy, warm and nurtured. The aroma of cookies baking in the oven, scents of cinnamon in the living room and a bit of lavender in the bedroom, we feel comfortable and relaxed. Comfy pillows or snuggly throws, square shapes and earth tones to help us feel secure and grounded.

Refine and Define The energy of metal help generates focus. When we find ourselves scattered from all the activities and excitement, take some time to create a sense of order and control. Stop for a moment to take a breath, allow 15 minutes to organize our space. Designate an area for gifts, holiday items and other paraphernalia that seems to be cropping up all over. The more time we spend shopping, visiting, celebrating, the less time we have to keep things in their natural order, and for some of us this can be very daunting and distracting. Choose the space where we can tolerate the temporary chaos and enjoy it!

Lois Kramer-Perez, is a Certified Feng Shui Practitioner, A catalyst, inspiring people to seek and create change in their lives. Feng Shui Your Space and Your Soul.
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Feng Shui Facts & Fantasy

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Let’s begin with a description of Feng Shui:
“Feng Shui” translated from Chinese to English is “Wind Water” Wind is the energy you feel, water is the energy you see.

The Principles of Feng Shui create a harmonious relationship between the energy you see & the energy you feel. How did it begin? Feng Shui began in China thousands of years ago & has transcended cultures & time.
Early Feng Shui began with “form”, to site homes and graves. The principles of form are the foundation we use today. We also incorporate directions, colors, shapes, elements, objects, timing and YOU.

Feng Shui has basic principles that are followed, however; the most important piece of the puzzle is YOU, your relationship to your space, what is happening in your life now & where you want to go. Your personal feng shui will vary at different times in your life, the best Feng Shui is to be open to change.

Imagine your home as your living vision board: do you make “1 Vision Board” & keep it forever? I think not!

Many of you have read books, searched online, listened to podcasts, maybe taken a class. How much of what you heard/learned is based on fact or fantasy? I think some of what we hear is translated like playing telephone: it starts out as one thing and ends up something else, forgetting the reason for the statement in the first place. Everything in feng shui has a reason and a purpose.

Let’s explore some of my favorite feng shui facts and fantasies.

Don’t use the # 4!
I was shopping at IKEA, holding 4 bamboo stalks & a man came up to me emphatically stating:
“NO! That is bad luck Feng Shui!” He did not appear to be of Chinese descent. I am not either.
The Chinese word for death sounds like “4”, therefore someone whose native language is Chinese or is of Chinese culture, I understand the connection & I respect that.
The truth is, the Feng Shui significance for the number 4 is southeast, a “tree element” which is the area of our life connected with “Fortunate Blessings, Prosperity.” I chose to place 4 bamboo stalks in the southeast to nourish my fortunate blessings adding healthy tree element which in turn nourishes the “fire of the south, the life connection to “Reputation, Recognition & Passion.”

Keep the toilet lid closed or your money will go down the drain!
First & foremost, Feng Shui promotes safe & healthy living. I choose to close the lid when I flush to keep whatever is in there from flying up into the air! However: if you believe you are flushing your money down the drain, you will look for ways to prove it.
The truth is, bathrooms have a lot of water, water relates to wealth. So, when your pipes are leaking, it’s a metaphor for money going down the drain – pay attention to what you’ve neglected creating a bigger expense. Dripping faucets: money is slowly dripping away – do you still have outdated subscriptions on autopay?  Clogged drains? What is it you haven’t completed that’s stopping money from coming in.

My best advice is to keep your bathrooms neat, clean; pipes maintained & close the lid when you flush!
Adding fresh flowers or bamboo stalks in clear water promotes healthy chi.

Mirrors at the front door: good or bad?
Mirrors are great ways to enhance energy, Feng Shui principles use mirrors to reflect beauty, “double blessings” and expand spaces.
A mirror placed on a wall directly opposite the front door is not recommended. The reason is when you open the front door, the mirror reflects the energy and pushes it back out of the house.
The truth is, in Feng Shui the front door is know as the “Mouth of Chi.” (Chi = Energy) This indicates the front door is important for bringing in good health, wealth & opportunity.
Why would you want to send the “Chi” back out the door before it comes in!
A great use of a mirror at the front door is to create an expanse of space. If your front door opens into a foyer which has an open space on one side and a wall on the other side, place a mirror on the wall to balance the energy, creating a sense opening the space.
*I have so many other mirror conversations & recommendations: check out this fun class on demand: https://bit.ly/OnDemandFengShuiwLois

Sitting with your back to the door is bad Feng Shui.
Here is the truth behind this statement. Feng Shui principles recommend sitting with your back to a wall having a view of the door. We refer to this as the “Command Position.”
One reason not to sit with your back to the door is your central nervous system is on alert when your back is to a door or an opening, feeling unprotected. You may not realize how distracting this can be. It is more comfortable & productive to sit in the “Command Position.” In the “Command Position” you are available & can see all the  opportunities coming your way. Experiment for yourself.

Is Feng Shui a religion? 
Feng Sui is not a religion, it does have roots in Taoism, based on the belief in energy: everything has energy, creating the environment that supports your energy is the best Feng Shui of all!
Going back to the beginning thousands of years ago in China is where “Form Feng Shui” was created for siting homes to be in the ideal environment for safety & practicality.
There is a reason behind every Feng Shui principle. There are varied ways Feng Shui is practiced, there are some spiritual aspects for those of a spiritual nature. The beauty working with a certified Feng Shui Practitioner, they will recommend the best Feng Shui principles specifically for you.

Place a 3-legged frog at your front door to bring in the money.
This is a good example of using “icons” in Feng Shui. Everything you put in your space relates to your subconscious, this is how Feng Shui connects the meaning of the things we see to the things we feel. The story I like best about the 3-legged frog is something like this:

“A farmer was passing a well on his walk & heard a voice from the well saying “help me, help me.” He peered into the well & saw a frog at the bottom. He sent the pail down the well & brought the frog to safety, then he went on his way. This frog only had 3 legs which is why he couldn’t jump high enough to get out. The next morning the farmer woke up to find gold coins under his pillow. Every day for the rest of his life the gift of gratitude from the frog was a pile of gold coins.” My interpretation of this folk tale: give without expectation & you are rewarded more than you can imagine. This is the concept for Fortunate Blessings.

So – if every time you see your 3-legged frog you are reminded to be kind & generous without expectation & live in gratitude – go for it! However, if you think you can randomly place an object somewhere just because someone said so, don’t expect miracles!
The truth is: objects are only as powerful as your actions & behaviors inspired from them. Remember, everything we do in Feng Shui has a reason & a purpose.

Feng Shui offers wonderful opportunities to reflect on yourself, who you are, where you are, & where you want to go. Feng Shui recommendations specifically designed for you will help you create the life you love and deserve.
The most important part of this equation is you! Only you know how you feel, trust your inner knowing & be open to change. Ask questions, if it doesn’t make sense to you, ask more questions, still not making sense, do something different.

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Lois Kramer-Perez, CHt. Certified Feng Shui, NLP, Past Life Regression & Energy Clearing Practitioner.

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Feng Shui: The I Ching & The Book of Changes Where it All Began

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Feng Shui, a practice that originated in China, is popular today worldwide. It’s an art of arranging your space to create harmony between you and the environment where you live & work. Few people know that the roots of Feng Shui can be traced back to an ancient Chinese divination system called the I Ching, also known as “The Book of Changes.” I love the connection the I Ching brings to everyday life. I use this method as morning inspiration read on to see how.

The I Ching has been in practice for more than three thousand years, one of the oldest and most respected texts in Chinese literature. It is believed to have been created during the Shang Dynasty (1600-1046 BCE) and was used primarily for divination purposes. The book contains 64 hexagrams, each comprising six lines, which are created to represent different states of the universe and the various forces of nature that shape our lives. The foundation is the relationship & interaction of the 5 Elements, Water, Tree (Wood), Fire, Earth & Metal with each other.
How the “Hexagrams” are formed creates a guidance in relation to the question asked.

Legend tells us the I Ching was created by “Fu Hsi” or “Fu Xi”, a mythical emperor said to have lived around 2800 BCE. Fu Hsi received the knowledge of the hexagrams through a series of visions, which he then recorded in the form of a book. I love the story how Fu Hsi saw the tortoise come out of the water with the numbers written on its shell. Later, during the Zhou Dynasty (1046-256 BCE), the I Ching was further developed and expanded upon by the philosopher Confucius, who added commentaries and interpretations to the original text.

One of the key concepts in the I Ching is the idea of yin and yang, representing the opposing forces of the universe. Yin is associated with darkness, femininity, and passivity, while yang represents light, masculinity, and activity. The interaction between these two forces is believed to create balance and harmony in the universe.

Feng Shui, translated to English meaning “wind and water,” is based on the principles of the I Ching. It’s a practice of harmonizing the flow of energy, or “chi” in a space by arranging furniture, decor, and other elements in a specific way. Feng Shui is a great method to create a balanced, harmonious environment that supports the specific person, to create the life they desire, bringing the potential of good health, happiness & prosperity into the mix. Yes, the principles used are the foundation, however; the most important part of the equation is creating the specific recommendations for the person living or working in the space.

In Feng Shui, the I Ching is used as a tool for divination and guidance. Practitioners will consult the book for auspicious timing for an activity, potential of an action or undertaking. I Ching practice is not limited to Feng Shui, it is a great way for you to begin the day, simply by asking “What is important for me to learn from today.”  The Hexagrams are created by throwing a series of coins and creating the arrangement of the 6 lines. Hexagrams are interpreted in relation to the specific situation and can provide insight & guidance for the best way for you to proceed.

The best way to learn about the I Ching is to take a class where you can experience asking questions, throwing the coins, creating the hexagrams, referring to the various translations & interpretations. Join Lois Kramer-Perez, Certified Feng Shui Practitioner & Master Teacher for Conscious Design Institute, Sunday May 21 at 1 PM.

In this workshop, you will discover the background and history of the I Ching and learn how it connects with Feng Shui. You will also learn methods for asking questions and receive guidance from the I Ching. You will also explore the various translations & writings used for interpretation. And the best part? No previous experience with the I Ching or Feng Shui is required!

All you need to bring to the class are 3 quarters or 3 large coins of the same denomination You will receive a workbook via email prior to the class to prepare you for this fascinating journey.

So, mark your calendars for Sunday, May 21, at 1:00 PM at Hope Wellness, 2 Walnut St Hope, NJ. Register now https://bit.ly/ICHNGMay21HopeNJ  to secure your spot. Don’t miss this opportunity to learn about the ancient wisdom of the I Ching and discover the messages waiting for you! You will be glad that you did. Questions? Lois@LoisKramerPerez.com

Feng Shui 101: Unlocking the Secrets of Harmonious Living

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Are you tired of feeling stuck in your career, struggling with relationships, or just feeling generally unfulfilled in your daily life? It might be time to look at the energy flow in your living space. Bring in the shui:  feng shui, the ancient Chinese practice of creating harmony and balance between you and your environment.

But what exactly is feng shui and how does it work? Simply put, feng shui is your living vision board. It’s the art of arranging your living space in a way that promotes the flow of energy, or “chi,” to improve your well-being and bring good living. And no, you don’t have to be a master of martial arts or have a degree in interior design to achieve feng shui in your home. Feng Shui is not a religion; it’s actually based on science. The science in nature, energy & people.

The key principles of feng shui are based on the five elements: water, tree, fire, earth & metal. Each element represents a different aspect of life, such as movement & flow (water) growth & expansion (tree), passion & excitement (fire), support & grounding (earth), organization & structure (metal).  By incorporating these elements into your home, you can create a balance of energy that supports and nurtures the people who live there.

Wait!  Before you start rearranging all your furniture, let’s start with some easy & practical tips for incorporating feng shui into your daily life.

    1.Clear the clutter: You will immediately feel the shift in energy when you create a clear space by clearing the clutter. Clutter not only physically blocks the flow of energy, but it also creates mental clutter contributing to feelings of stress and overwhelm. Take some time to declutter your home, begin creating a sense of open space & tranquility. Begin with your silverware drawer! Just a few minutes begins to open up space.

    2.Bring in nature: Incorporating elements of nature, such as plants, flowers, and natural materials, can greatly improve the energy flow in your home. Not only do they add beauty and life to a space, but they also help to purify the air & inspire you to get moving!

   3. Use the power of color: Each color in feng shui represents a different aspect of life. For example, red represents passion and excitement, while blue represents calm and tranquility. By incorporating colors that align with your intentions and goals, you can create a sense of balance and harmony in your space.

   4. Give love to your front door: The front door is the “Mouth of Chi,” the way energy enters your home, the metaphor for opportunities coming your way, your ability to be found! Be sure the numbers on your house can be easily seen, the front door well-lit & welcoming.

 5. Create a peaceful bedroom: Your bedroom is a sanctuary for rest, rejuvenation & intimate activities. Are there any other people hanging out in your bedroom? Meaning photos of people other than you & your partner??? Think about it! Rest easily in the bedroom as you minimize electronic devices, clear under the bed & use colors that promote a feeling of calm and tranquility.

I know, you might be thinking, “That sounds great, but I live in a tiny apartment & I can’t really change the layout or decor.” While it’s true that some feng shui principles require a bit more flexibility in terms of space and decor, the beauty of feng shui is that it’s adaptable to any living situation. How about this – Create Fabulous Firsts! The first thing you see coming into your apartment, the first thing you see waking up in the morning, the first thing you see sitting in your favorite chair, this can change everything! “These Fabulous Firsts” apply to everyone.

There are basic principles in Feng Shui, each one has a purpose, a Certified Feng Shui Practitioner can help you create the harmonious environment that aligns with YOUR personal energy, values & goals. Feng Shui is not a cookie cutter practice. You are the defining factor in how the principles are put into place, based on your elemental nature, where you are and where you want to be. The Feng Shui Practitioner will analyze your home/office in relation to the correlating areas of your life, using the “Bagua” which is the map of your home indicating your life areas. Combining the “Bagua” map and your elemental nature and your desires, the recommendations are designed specifically for you.

The most important thing to remember when incorporating feng shui into your life is to have fun with it. Experiment and try different things to see what resonates with you and your space. Most important: listen to your intuition, that is how you create fabulous feng shui.

The goal of feng shui is to create a space that supports and nurtures the people who live in it, and it’s a powerful tool for creating balance and harmony in your life. So, why not give it a try and see how it can improve your well-being and bring good living into your life? Lois Kramer-Perez is a Certified Feng Shui Practitioner. Ready to take the first step towards living your Fabulous Feng Shui? Schedule you FREE Discover Your Shui Call at www.CallWithLois.com . The moment you choose to set your date, you’ll be on your way to unlocking the secrets of feng shui, creating a space that supports and nurtures you to be the most Fabulous YOU!
Lois@LoisKramerPerez.com

Heal Your Relationships, Begin with YOU

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2023 the Water Rabbit inspires us to heal our relationships. Get started on the right foot, begin with healing the relationship with yourself. The relationship you have with yourself is how your relationships with others are created. You are inspired & ready to heal relationships in your life, first begin with you.

Practice self-compassion, how kind & understanding are you towards yourself, especially during challenging times. Recognizing mistakes and experiencing failure is part of our human experience, begin to treat yourself with the kindness and understanding that you would offer someone you care about.
Practicing self-compassion, you improve your relationship with yourself, you reduce feelings of self-judgment, self-criticism, and shame. Stop judging yourself & you will stop judging others.

Cultivate self-awareness, begin understanding your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Being self-aware, you will recognize patterns in your relationships & identify triggers causing adverse reactions. This is the first step for you to begin to “respond” rather than “react.”

You become conscious of your interactions and find yourself being present & considerate of the other person in the situation.

Cultivating self-awareness is a great way for you to get to know the real you.
Become the person you truly are rather than who you think you are supposed to be.

My favorite method of self-awareness is understanding my 5 Element Archetype.
5 Element Archetype System describes the interactions and relationships between the five elements: Water, Tree, Fire, Earth & Metal. Each element represents different personality qualities, behaviors, and emotions. By understanding the Five Element Archetypes, you gain insights into your own personality and the personality of others. This is a powerful tool which helps you to heal and strengthen your relationships, first by understanding & being yourself  “on purpose” & then by having the capacity to see & understand others.

Understanding the Elemental Archetypes helps you to understand different personality qualities, their strengths and weaknesses. For example, someone who embodies the Tree element may be action, goal-oriented and not too patient, while someone who embodies the Water element may be more introspective, sensitive & reflective. As you begin to understand these personality types, you can better communicate and relate to others in a way that resonates with their personality.

Identifying Communication Styles of the Five Element Archetype helps you to express yourself and communicate clearly. Example, someone who has the Fire element quality, may be passionate dramatic & expressive with a short attention span, while someone with the Metal element may be more reserved & analytical & empathic. By understanding these communication styles, you adapt your own communication style to better resonate with others, which can result in clear communications and understanding, ultimately creating connecting relationships.

You will also begin to understand the comfort zones. For instance, and Earth quality person is not comfortable with change & are also more comfortable giving than receiving.

I just heard “Where do I begin?”
Begin with you, being kind, compassionate, self-aware and step into being who you truly are. Be yourself on purpose.

Before you learn about the 5 Element Archetypes, start by paying attention. When you are in conversation with someone, listen, really listen, listen to how they are showing up, notice how they “hear” express and be.

Once you begin to understand who you are – you will be open to accept others who they are.
As you begin to realize that “it is not always about you” – you can see the people in your relationships as they are, understanding how to communicate for both of your greatest good!

Here is a fun way to get to know yourself & the people in your life learning all about the 5 Element Archetypes: On your time, On Demand Class: https://bit.ly/FengShuiforYourSoul.

Lois Kramer-Perez, CHt. Certified Feng Shui, NLP, Past Life Regression & Energy Clearing Practitioner. Master Teach https://www.consciousdesigninstitute.com/
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What’s The Moon Got To Do With It?

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Feeling more emotional lately?
Maybe a bit shaken up?
Lots of chatter is going on about the Big Solar Eclipse New Moon on June 10.
How can you make the most of this, especially while in the midst of Mercury in Retrograde?
Hold on! Nothing to fear..  I have the solution for you.

Let’s begin with the understanding how when mercury goes retrograde you may be experiencing lots of detours and diversions.

Do you find a breakdown in communications, the ability to move forward effortlessly seems to be disrupted? Are you finding yourself drifting into thoughts of relationships or situations from the past? Are people showing up from your past or are you finally recognizing patterns in your life repeating?

Slow down, cultivate your patience and pay attention. The energy around you may find you distracted or disconnected from the present therefore a perfect storm for all kinds of mistakes, disruptions, and detours.

Mercury is retrograde May 29 – June 22…  Knowledge is power. Use this time to see opportunity – rather than disaster.

Now how does this New Moon Eclipse today add to the energy party?

Typically, on a new moon it is a time for manifesting, creating new beginnings and using our divination tools to answer our questions such as tarot cards, I Ching, pendulum, or your personal connection to going deeper with your intuition.

It’s a time we usually charge our crystals.. however: this New Moon Eclipse is unique.

The eclipse of this nature brings an opportunity for all humanity to explore the darkness beneath the surface and choose light.  This New Moon Eclipse brings the energy of communication and alignment for the benefit of all humanity through light and wisdom through the power of love.

You may be experiencing the unrest of the collective, the fear or anger around you.

This does not mean to squash your opinions or ideals, it means to use your power of expression through respect, calmness, and peaceful assertiveness.
This does not mean to stuff your feelings down – it is time to make peace with all your feelings and find healthy ways to use your energy for your greatest good.

Look at what is hiding in the shadows, beneath the surface. These feelings may be seeping out, disguised as frustration:
when you stub your toe or blowing up when you find dirty dishes on the counter.

Now is the time to choose to release those emotions and replace them with your ability to breathe in inner peace and calm.

This New Moon Eclipse during Mercury Retrograde may stir up feelings of inadequacy, confusion, misunderstandings, miscommunications and even feeling paranoid and operating on assumptions. It is wise to act cautiously, be clear, patient, honest and believe in yourself. This is not the time to act impulsively or make rash decisions.  There is a underlying support from this timing to offer courage and the confidence to see beyond the illusion in the darkness which is even more reason to avoid reckless behavior.

Choose the be what you want to see in this world and that is what you will see.