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Why Some Homes Feel Lucky By Lois Kramer-Perez, C.Ht.

Why do some homes feel lucky? Is it the lucky number 9? Is it the red door? Could it be a water fountain on the front lawn? Or is it that gentle winding path leading to the front door.

What’s the first thing you notice when you enter a home – is it “Ooooh what a feeling” that something-something that just feels right or does it feel like the energy is flat, empty or eh?

I am describing my favorite tip: create fabulous firsts: the experience you have approaching your home, as you enter through the front door… what is that feeling?

Let’s break some of these things down:

“I need a red door to be lucky” – it depends!  Is the color of your house enhanced with a red door? A red door on a yellow looks like scrambled eggs with ketchup to me, wouldn’t be my first choice. We can also look at the classical feng shui principles; A red door is the fire element: if your front door faces South, the direction of the fire element: you are enhancing that area. If your front door faces Southwest the direction earth element, a red fire door will nourish the Southwest because fire nourishes earth in the productive 5 element cycle. 
Give your front door the love it deserves. Make that first experience through your front door fabulous.

That gentle winding or meandering path leading to the front door. Ahh feels lovely to slow down, enjoy the journey, calming your energy, opening your awareness to enjoy the surroundings as you make your way to meet your host feel fabulous coming home.

Moving water is a metaphor for money. A strategically placed water fountain bringing the water towards the house is the principle for welcoming money into the home.

And speaking of water — while a fountain at your entrance is a beautiful symbol of welcoming money in, the most important water in your home is the kind you don’t see: the pipes, the drains, the everyday flow that keeps your home healthy & flowing effortlessly.

Giving love to your bathrooms, sinks, toilets, pipes are a key to luck for money: leaky pipes are a clue money is leaking out of your pockets’, clogged pipes are a clue money blocked from coming into your pockets: ponder what actions you have contributed to stimulating these alerts! Repair what needs repairing and take proactive steps in your actions to remedy your money situation.

I want a house with the number 9! Yes 9 is a fabulous number: passionate, vibrant, fun, transformational, spotlighting recognition & reputation. 9 is especially powerful since we moved into a new 20 year “9 fire period” in 2024. It may not be practical to only buy a house with the number 9 or multiples of 9, what you can do is to be creative with using the number 9 – plant 9 shrubs, 9 planters with red plants or 9 lights along the path, you get the picture.

Have you noticed the common denominator in all these ideas about what feels like a lucky home? You! Your relationship with your home, from the everyday experience you have coming home, entering through the front door, sitting in your favorite chair, waking up in the morning & so on & so on.

Remember that common denominator in all of the scenarios— you? That’s exactly why feng shui isn’t one-size-fits-all. A red door might be perfect for one home and completely off for another. Nine planters might be powerful for one person and meaningless for the next. Googling will give you general information, but feng shui at its best is a conversation between principles, the space, and the specific “YOU” living in it. The details matter tremendously — and getting them right is what turns a house into a home that truly feels like YOURS and truly feels LUCKY.

Lois Kramer-Perez, CHt. Shares her tools using simple techniques for awareness, clarity and empowerment, creating change from the inside out. https://loiskramerperez.com/ Questions about this article: lois@loiskramerperez.com or Schedule Your FREE Discover Your Shui Call with Lois http://callwithlois.com

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Drinking in the New Moon Energy

OOOooh What A New Moon Can Do For You

The Next New Moon Peaks April 17 at 7:51 AM EDT

How can you tap into this inspirational energy?

Here is a simple ritual I am going to do:

Fill a small clear bowl or jar with fresh drinkable water.

Place a note at under the bowl ( on the outside of the bowl)

stating something you are going to begin.

Hold the bowl under the New Moon –

State your New Beginning Action in Detail

Feel Every Part of It

Celebrate Your Success

Drink the Water!

Dawn of A Story- Full Circle Moments

https://youtu.be/PXYnk3fM2rA?si=UfXf5guAd5OttlzG

In this episode of Dawn of a Story, my guest ‪@Loismambo‬ Lois Kramer Perez and I explore the theme of full circle moments, discussing personal transformations, the journey into Feng Shui, and the importance of awareness and acceptance in life. We delve into the impact of relationships, navigating doubts and fears, and recognizing signs from the universe. The conversation also covers the significance of energy clearings, community support, and the importance of being true to oneself.

Energy in Motion Feng Shui Flow & Finding Inner Harmony

I enjoyed this conversation with Deb & Deana, Balance Your Life Wellness Gala

Let us know your thoughts!

https://youtu.be/-rlIOBCXirY?si=OQbH2wpsXzWnsILX

Enjoy A Stress-Free Holiday Season with Feng Shui by Lois Kramer-Perez

Here we are amidst the holiday season once again. It is so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of it all, we find ourselves moving so quickly, we miss the joy connecting to the moments. What can we do?

Feng Shui principles create support in our life, wonderful tools to help us stay organized and grounded so to enjoy this festive fast paced time of year. 
Here are some Feng Shui Tips to get us started.

Our Front Door 
Use the front door. Be sure it is easy to open. Make it inviting, add color and sparkle.
Our front door is our face to the world, it represents how we are moving along in our life journey, let’s create a joyous and welcoming experience.

Movement and Flow
Movement should be effortless throughout our home, meandering like a stream of water flowing easily from room to room with ample space around furniture and objects. As we enter the season of winter, the element of water, we connect to the energy of adaptability and flow, it is the perfect time to dream of our hearts desires and make plans for the coming New Year. Connecting to the feelings of our thoughts and dreams, we can make it so!

It’s Good To Be Alive
Plants, flowers and trees bring life into our space, we use them to remind us how blessed we are to be alive. Embrace the sense of unconditional giving, how good it feels to show kindness to others. That which we give away with compassion, without expectation, is what we reap 1,000 times over. The energy of life brings forth an enthusiasm for action, nourishing our ideas, supporting our ability to go-go-go!

Let There Be Light! ‘Tis the season of parties and celebrations, filling our spirits with joy and excitement. We keep our fires burning from within, by surrounding ourselves with items that create a sparkling festive mood. Decorate with objects which bring joy, and don’t forget to don our favorite holiday gear. A sense of whimsy is always welcome to help us when we find ourselves too serious. Be spontaneous! Laugh, dance and sing! ‘Tis the season to be jolly.

Grounded and Secure We find comfort and stability when we have a place to feel cozy, warm and nurtured. The aroma of cookies baking in the oven, scents of cinnamon in the living room and a bit of lavender in the bedroom, we feel comfortable and relaxed. Comfy pillows or snuggly throws, square shapes and earth tones to help us feel secure and grounded.

Refine and Define The energy of metal help generates focus. When we find ourselves scattered from all the activities and excitement, take some time to create a sense of order and control. Stop for a moment to take a breath, allow 15 minutes to organize our space. Designate an area for gifts, holiday items and other paraphernalia that seems to be cropping up all over. The more time we spend shopping, visiting, celebrating, the less time we have to keep things in their natural order, and for some of us this can be very daunting and distracting. Choose the space where we can tolerate the temporary chaos and enjoy it!

Lois Kramer-Perez, is a Certified Feng Shui Practitioner, A catalyst, inspiring people to seek and create change in their lives. Feng Shui Your Space and Your Soul.
Questions? Lois@LoisKramerPerez.com or Schedule Your FREE Discover Your Shui Call at callwithlois.com

Feng Shui Summer Fun & Inspiration by Lois Kramer-Perez, C.Ht.

Summer is here – it just feels like fun!
Every time the month of June rolls around I feel happier and freer, like I’m already having more fun!
Is it any coincidence we associate summer with fun?
Feng Shui teaches us that the Season of Summer is the essence of the Fire Element. Obviously, for students, summer means “schools out!” – so why do “I” still get that giddy fun vacation feeling when summer rolls around? And I have not been a calendar year student for quite some time.

The Element Fire tells it all. Fire is the light in our hearts, the light in our eyes.

When the lights are bright, all becomes clear, we are motivated, we awaken, we are ready for fun!

We enjoy the summer fun and find ourselves outside into the bright evening, enjoying those late-night sunsets and fireflies.

Fire ignites our curiosity, our passions, and our joy.
Fire inspires.
Fire brings clarity, yes, the lights are on longer each day.
Fire is transformational.

May I share a tip with you?
You do not need to wait until summer to enjoy the essence of this fire element.
You can tap into this essence all year long.

When you find yourself too serious, find some fire;
Connect with someone who lights up your life, who brings you laughter.
Do something silly.
Laughter really is your best medicine. A good belly laugh will warm oyur body and cleanse your spirit with tears of joy. You know that feeling of release after a good laugh, ahhh…
I feel at least ten pounds lighter and ten years younger – don’t you?

When you are bored, find some fire;
Engaging your curiosity, will lead you to inspiration.
Look to the rainbow of inspiration, in nature, in music, in body and spirit.

Get up and dance your happy spirited soul ~ shine your light with laughter.

Become the inspiration you seek in this world.
You are the fire that ignites your light.

And here is another Feng Shui Secret:
You may find yourself experiencing your personal  “Fire Year.”
Yes, that’s right, in the Feng Shui 5 Element Astrology System, there are 9 Yearly Cycles.
How awesome is it find out you are in YOUR 9 Year now – wow!
Imagine how your summer can bring you even more power, more passion, more clarity and transformation!
Namaste – The Light In Me, Recognizes The Light In YOU

Curious about where you are in your personal 9 year cycle?
Schedule your FREE “discover your shui” call at www.CallWithLois.com

Lois Kramer-Perez, CHt. Certified Feng Shui, NLP, Past Life Regression & Energy Clearing Practitioner. Master Teacher Conscious Design Institute, Metaphysical Center of NJ  & London School of Feng Shui.

“Feng Shui Your Space and Your Soul, Create the Life You Deserve by Mastering the Art of Being Yourself.” LoisKramerPerez.com

Feng Shui A Garden Just for You by Lois Kramer-Perez, C.Ht.

Feng Shui, meaning “Wind Water,” creates harmony by marrying the energy we can feel (wind) & physical spaces we can see (water). Using nature’s cycles & the five elements: Water, Tree, Fire, Earth, & Metal—Feng Shui cultivates a thriving life connected to our environment. A Feng Shui garden embodies this connection to nature.

The 5 elements influence us through seasons, colors, shapes, and behaviors.

 In spring, the Tree element energizes us with vibrant green colors of growth & new beginnings. This season inspires activities going outside, spring cleaning & the urge to get moving.

Summer, represented by Fire, is lively and passionate, with colors like red, yellow, and orange. It symbolizes peak energy, playfulness, and transformation, represented through bright accents and angular shapes.

As summer wanes, Earth’s energy encourages us to pause & nurture. Earth’s colors range from ivory to chocolate brown, and its shapes are sturdy rectangles and squares, providing comfort and stability.

Autumn introduces the Metal element, marking completion and refinement. Metal’s energy, represented by silver, gold, and white, is precise and controlled, with clean lines and stone features.

Winter embodies the Water element, a time for reflection and flow. Water’s colors are deep blues, turquoise, and black, with irregular, meandering shapes symbolizing adaptability and calm.

These elements cyclically support one another: Water nourishes Tree, Tree fuels Fire, Fire’s ash enriches Earth, Earth forms Metal, and Metal generates Water. We refer to the “*Bagua” the feng shui map of your space to specifically enhance areas using these 5 elements.

Create Your Feng Shui Garden: There’s a Dutch proverb that says, “If you want to be happy for a day, get drunk. If you want to be happy for a year, get married. But if you want to be happy for a lifetime, plant a garden”.

Natural Alignment: Use local plants, allow them to grow naturally. Plan for seasonal changes.

Form: Design using the “Armchair Form,” giving you the feeling your home & garden are being “hugged” as if your property was sitting in a giant armchair with a view of what’s in front. Use trees, shrubs or fences to create your “hug.”

Use curved paths with soft edges to direct the energy through your garden sharing the “graceful chi” in all spaces.

Front Garden: A garden in the front of your property welcomes visitors & is a gentle boundary between your home & the world. Be sure your trees or shrubs do not cover your front entrance or number on your house.

Water Features: Whether in the front or back garden, the water should always flow towards your house, bringing the flow of prosperity towards you.

Personal Expression: Create your garden to reflect your personality and passions.

Incorporate the 5 Elements: *The Feng Shui Bagua is a map that shows how different parts of your home or property relate to specific areas of your life & the elements which support them. Schedule your feng shui consultation for your personal bagua map and specific guidance for enhancements & placement of your water features.

Love your garden, as its beauty, harmony & joy nourish your life. Schedule your personal feng shui consultation contact Lois@LoisKramerPerez.com.

Lois Kramer-Perez, CHt. Certified Feng Shui, NLP, Past Life Regression & Energy Clearing Practitioner. Master Teacher Conscious Design Institute, Metaphysical Center of NJ  & London School of Feng Shui.

“Feng Shui Your Space and Your Soul, Create the Life You Deserve by Mastering the Art of Being Yourself.” schedule your free “discover your shui call” go to www.callwithlois.com. LoisKramerPerez.com

“20 Years of Illumination Beginning 2024”

You still have time to create a magnificent 2024. Start with lessons from Feng Shui, tapping into the wisdom following the Chinese astrology calendar. There are 2 dates of significance. First, the energy of the year changes on 2/4, “Early Spring.” In addition to the energy of the “Wood Dragon” we are beginning a new 20 year Feng Shui cycle.

First let’s examine the qualities of the “Wood Dragon” to understand the influence & potential he brings. Dragons are confident, smart enterprising strong leaders with a wicked sense of humor. They can be egotistical & eccentric, demanding the same high standards from others that they hold for themselves. The “Wood Dragon of 2024” is even more adventurous & thrives on action ready to explore new ideas. The energy of this “wood dragon” is the *fuel for the beginning of the new 20 year “9 Fire” feng shui cycle. (*Wood Feeds Fire). The influence of this wood dragon offers the potential for success & growth by acting on new ideas.

As we end 20 years of “8 Mountain” earth energy, reflect on how this influenced you to enhance your personal growth through education for your mind body & soul. There was great attention focused on sustainability & environmental issues. This new 20-year feng shui cycle brings the fire element. The quality of fire shines a light for all to be revealed. Fire ignites passion, enlightenment, transformation & fun. As the light shines of the fire shines bright there are lots of opportunities for recognition and enhancing your reputation. Fire is spontaneous, let go of holding on to unnecessary feelings & “stuff” to enjoy the “fun” in all that you do. If you are ready for a transformation in your life, this is the year to make it happen. The Wood Dragon brings fuel to ignite this powerful fire energy. You may find this energy moving fast, attracting you to excitement & ready to explore new things. Fire ignites passion: when passion moves to extreme situations can become dramatic & aggressive. And remember, with all this fire light many things will be revealed, no more hiding in the shadows! Stay in integrity & you will benefit greatly.

Next: “Chinese Lunar New Year” fluctuates depending on the cycles of the lunar calendar, this year we celebrate on 2/10 with fun traditions for a healthy, happy prosperous 2024.
The places you spend the most time are “living vision boards,” home, office & even your car.
For a full list of tips for Chinese New Year’s Eve & New Year’s Day: https://loiskramerperez.com/chinese-lunar-new-year-2024/

Get the full scoop for 9 Fire Period & Wood Dragon join my online class at 11 AM on 1/20/2024.
Register https://bit.ly/WoodDragonCNYTickets Questions?  lois@loiskramerperez.com Lois Kramer-Perez, CHt. A Catalyst to Inspire You To Seek and Create New Possibilities in YOUR Life. Feng Shui Your Space and Your Soul Visit www.loiskramerperez.com for your free gift. 201.906.5767 lois@loiskramerperez.com

Chinese Lunar New Year 2024

Get Into the Spirit! Tips to Make it Feng Shui Fabulous

Prior to Chinese New Year’s Day: By the New Moon on February 9, 2024 Chinese New Year’s Eve

  1. Clear out and de-clutter making room for new opportunities coming your way. A drawer, a shelf, a room, your wallet/purse, every little bit makes room for a lot more. This includes cleaning up any debt or finishing projects. Do not lend money NY Eve or NY Day.
  1. Clean to prepare for a fresh start. Through clear windows with all the light bulbs working, all opportunity and wisdom is clear for you to “see.” Your beauty is reflected in your mirrors. Check out your front door entrance, wash the door, make it inviting – it’s time for a new welcome mat!
  2. Stock the fridge & cupboards with an abundance of fresh nutritious foods. Having enough for leftovers after New Year’s Day assures us abundance all throughout the New Year. A festive colorful fruit bowl connects our intention to abundance as oranges & tangerines represent money & prosperity; apples symbolize good health & safety; pineapples symbolize recognition & promotion. Grapes symbolize success and abundance. Be sure to feast on noodles; uncut they represent long life. Gather your friends & family for a celebratory dinner.
  1. Live blooming flowers represent rebirth, new growth, new beginnings. Fortunate plants include: Plum Blossoms, Bamboo, Evergreen Pine, Pussy Willow, Peony and Azalea.
  2. Your appearance, actions and attitudes set the tone for the New Year. Prepare to strut your stuff ~ indulge in a manicure, pedicure, massage, new hair style; any activity to set your intention for the year to come. Prepare your wealth vase as part of your intention to prosper.

On New Year’s Day February 10, 2024

  1. The first words you speak should be sweet and filled with love to ensure each day will be such. No crying or reprimanding children. Do not speak of the past, death, or use negative language.
  2. The first thing you eat should be sweet, to ensure you will have only sweetness filling up all days of the New Year. My favorite is mandarin oranges. Use the orange peels for a special blessing. Email me for the details.
  3. Wear new clothes; include something red, whether it is seen or unseen – it is still auspicious! Don’t wash your hair on New Year’s Day as it is said you will wash your luck away.
  4. As all the preparation has been completed, there are no chores to be done on New Year’s Day to ensure you will not be burdened with hard work this year. you will prosper smooth and easy.
    Laugh, Celebrate, and Enjoy the Day!

~ “Gung Hey Fat Choy” ~

“Wishing You Prosperity & Wealth” or “May Your New Year Be Fortunate”

~My Favorite Wish for All ~

“Wan Shi Ru Yi” “May Everything Go As You Wish, May Everything Go Smoothly”

           

Gratitude in the Face of Frustration, by Lois Kramer-Perez, C.Ht.

Here we are in the month of November, a time of harvest, sharing & gratitude.

As I look around enjoying the shift in seasons, taking in the magic of autumn here in the northeast, just when I thought I had seen it all,
pow – here comes something else.
We are constantly finding chaos around us, some minor, some major, some chaos is part of our doing & some is out of our control.
How often do you find yourself frustrated, annoyed or even angry at the state of the world?
How can you feel gratitude in the face of so much unrest?

In the best of times there will always be something triggering our emotions.

Here are some things to remember:
You are only responsible for you. You do not have the “power” to “fix” anyone.
You do have the power to take care of yourself, to become grounded, to find your peace & your gratitude. You deserve this and more.
You do have the power to be compassionate, kind, and caring: first to yourself, then your capacity to be for others is greatly enhanced.

How to get started? How to get out of all the noise?
Begin with you.
Find a quiet place, sit comfortably and be with yourself, take this time to “notice.”
Focus on the moment, find 3 things you are grateful for right now & experience the feeling.
Example: I am grateful to sit here comfortably. I am grateful to see the sunshine/moonlight/clouds/raindrops. I am grateful I can feel this gratitude and peace within me.

The world is filled with peace, chaos, gratitude, resentment, joy, sadness, hope & despair. It can be challenging to not get swept away in all these emotions.

Everyday life can pull you in all directions. The more you can manage daily life, the stronger your foundation of grounding becomes. You have a greater capacity to feel gratitude & be compassionate when you are grounded.
You will be surprised how one small thing can make a difference.

This is what happened recently happened to me.

I got in my car to go to a workshop at a place I have never been, with people I had not yet met.
As I began to drive, I noticed something smelled! Sniff sniff, is it me? Do I have body odor?
This is bad. I look down in the cup holder & I see remnants of onion salsa – Oy! My boyfriend drove my car yesterday – this is what he leaves me? Now I am fuming! I am going to stink & bring this stink into a new place, meeting new people – how horrifying!


Then it hit me, I must be in a “Seinfeld episode.” There was an episode of the show “Seinfeld” where the parking attendant contaminated ‘Jerry’s car” with a pungent odor. Everyone who drove or rode in his car came out smelling! I started to laugh silly – I must be “Elaine”.  By the time I reached my destination, I was feeling wonderful, grateful to enjoy the day, rather than show up in a fowl angry mood.  Feeling grateful I didn’t bring the “stink” into the room with me. Feeling grateful to enjoy a wonderful workshop, learning new things, meeting new people.

This could have gone another way; I could have continued to get angry at a situation I had no control over. A minor event could have distracted me to a point where I was more concerned about “me” rather than grateful for this enjoyable opportunity.  Has something like this ever happened to you?  I am sure it has.

Learning to do the best you can in any situation can change the dynamic of the outcome.

Your biggest influence on others is much more than the words you say, it is how you are “being”.
How do you want to influence those around you? Be grateful for where you are, what you have, who you “be.” You will find it all coming back to you in abundance!

Experience the energy of gratitude with Lois, Thursday Mornings: https://bit.ly/WeeklyOnlineCirclewLois Lois Kramer-Perez, CHt. Certified Feng Shui, NLP, Past Life Regression & Energy Clearing Practitioner. Master Teacher https://www.consciousdesigninstitute.com/

A Catalyst to Inspire You To Seek and Create New Possibilities in YOUR Life. Feng Shui Your Space &Your Soul,
Schedule your free discover your shui call www.callwithlois.com . lois@loiskramerperez.com