The Shui of Love

Valentine’s Day reminds us to celebrate Love. You can celebrate Love everyday if you choose.
Your mindset is the driver of your life. When you choose to see with eyes of love, you become part of the vibration of love, part of the magical collective of all who see love.

What you surround yourself with, choosing how you want feel, especially when you are not paying attention, is the first step. Create your life to be filled with love simply following these few tips.
P.S. I have one more Feng Shui Love Secret. Message me to find out! lois@loiskramerperez.com

  1. Create Fabulous Firsts: What you see is what you become whether you are consciously aware or not. Notice how you feel, and all your “Firsts” should be “Fabulous” How do you feel when enter your home, what is the first thing you see when waking up in the morning and sitting at your desk or in your favorite chair. How do you want to feel with your partner?
  2. Be in Command Always have your back supported, with an easy view of what is coming. This allows your central nervous system to remain in a calm state, creating a secure feeling without distraction and ready to receive all opportunities awaiting you. Lying in bed have a clear view of the door.
  3. The Feng Shui Bedroom: Create an intimate retreat, with whom do you want to share this space? Choose the photos for this room thoughtfully, do you feel comfortable having people, children, family, watching us? What are you sleeping on top of? Is there anything under the bed? Create a support for optimal sleeping, a solid headboard, wood, fabric or create one with giant pillows. Get rid of 3 things in your bedroom every day for 9 days, make room for your love.
  4. Looking for a partner, or sparking the flame? Is there room for another? Create the relationship you desire by making room in the closets and drawers, is there a place for them to sit? Add art, objects which depict your dreams. Intertwined, 2 wicks in 1 candle. Pairs ~ Cranes, Mandarin Ducks mate for life. A nightstand on either side of the bed ~ they don’t have to match, the taller more prominent will reflect the one in charge!
  5. Create Movement and Flow: Movement should be effortless through our spaces. Placement of furniture and other objects should allow easy movement through openings, doorways and hallways. As you move effortlessly through your space, life will become the same
  6. Look Around: What messages are you feeling? Single? Happy? Lonely? Love
  7. Put Your Intention in Place. Smiling ~write down your desires, in the present, “I am”
    “I have”. Say it out loud as writing, connect to the feeling. As you engage your body (writing and speaking) mind (creating) and spirit (intention) you infuse power! Place your intentions in the red envelope and sleep with it under your pillow or between the mattress and box spring for 9 days.
    Then remove the envelope & place it where it will be seen easily every day. As you see this red envelope you remember what you wrote, how you feel. Make it stronger, say the words. Feel it! Participate!
  1. Play the 3 x 9 Game! Every three days for 9 days do something different. Change your hair, what you wear, where you go, what you do, how you do it. Plan it out.  Do something different to get something different.
  1. A heart shaped bowl carved out of wood representing a growing heart, placed your entryway with rose petals or your description of the love you desire, will call in a new love into your life.

Become Who You Wish to Attract ~ Participate in the Activities YOU Love.

 

Feng Shui and Fabulous for Romance

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cropped all I ask of you painting with mandarin duck couple

Looking for romance, looking for love? Look no further, the place to begin is by looking within.  Who we are inside ourselves is the energy we are projecting, every day, every moment, with each breath.

Very often people look for love outside of who they are. First we must look inside, embrace ourselves to find the love within, to be ourselves with purpose, only then can we begin to attract the love and romance that is perfect for us.

“We are what we think, all that we are arises in our thoughts, with our thoughts we make our world” The Buddha, wise man was he.  This quote reminds us that, what we think, how we think, all of our thoughts that are deep within our subconscious, create the world in which we choose to live.  The principles of Feng Shui, guide us to open our awareness, help us connect to our subconscious as we create an environment supporting who we want to be.  When we begin to notice how the objects in our life make us feel, we can then make conscious choices to select those which make us feel, happy, energetic, inspired and confident.  We have all noticed when we are feeling fabulous; the whole world seems fabulous too! Smiling and cheerful everything around us is smiling back, everything is smooth and easy, any bumps or stumbles along the way are insignificant.

Let’s begin by connecting to what fills us with joy. Our actions speak louder than words and there is no mistaking how vibrant we project our energy when we are passionate about what we are doing. We attract what we are projecting, “like gets like” people begin to notice, they are curious to see what is going on so they can get in on this phenomena of feeling groovy! Let’s start with our daily routines, as we focus our energy on those aspects we love, the less exciting will fade into the background. That which we give our attention and energy is that which we continue to create.  

I am a daydream believer! I do believe that our daydreams serve a very important purpose in our lives. As we dream our wildest and most fabulous dreams, we begin to create our new reality. I dreamed up an ipod that arrived as an unexpected gift, as well as an art studio in my home that came with a boyfriend! We want to see ourselves becoming our dreams, feel it as if it is already happening, smile and allow our emotions to fill us; we begin to activate forces allowing us to step into our new reality attracting the relationship that is healthy and perfect for us.

The easiest way to make this happen is to surround ourselves with the perfect scenarios. We want to be sure our subconscious has plenty of information to download; we are consciously setting our subconscious on automatic.

Here are some feng shui tips to get us started:

1.       Create Fabulous Firsts: What we see is what we become. When we surround ourselves with objects that create the feelings of the relationship we desire, that is exactly what our will energy project.

2.      Just Do It! Engaging in our favorite activities or exploring new interests finds us in the right places at the right times.

3.      Make A List and Check It Twice!  When we write it down, the action connects deep within. As we make our list describing our perfect relationship: written in the present tense, we feel the emotion of each item. Place this list in where we will see it every day: in our underwear drawer or the cabinet in the bathroom we open every morning.  We don’t even need to read the list, just noticing the paper or the envelope will trigger all our desires and emotions connected to those words reinforcing our intentions. Connecting to our vision of romance.

4.      Create A Sacred Space: Our bedroom is our most personal and intimate room. Objects in this room should connect to our sense of romance. A couple entwined in an embrace, a scene of a favorite romantic location, whatever that sense of two personally means to us. We should minimize photos or objects connecting to “outsiders” in our bedroom, such as family and friends.

5.      Make Room For Someone New. Now that they have found us, let’s make room for them; begin living as if they have already arrived.  Create space so that our new partner feels as if they belong: a place to sit and space for their stuff in the closet and drawers. Breathe in the feeling of romance.

6.      3 x 9 Game: Make a list of 3 things to do different every day for 9 days. Check each item off the list at the end of each day. This can include removing items in our home, office or car, changing a daily routine or changing a position of objects throughout our home, always paying close attention to what is going on in our bedroom. As we begin changing our regular patterns, we become available for new opportunities and adventures.

7.      Stay true to who we are: Be ourselves with purpose. Do not lose sight of who we are, the reason we attracted our new love in the first place.

*original painting by Tom James www.tomjamesgallery.com

Lois Kramer-Perez, CHt.  Is an Intuitive Practitioner offering her clients tools using simple techniques for awareness, clarity and empowerment, creating change in their lives from the inside out. Visit www.loiskramerperez.com for services & event schedule. Lois would love to hear from you, contact her at lois@loiskramerperez.com 201.906.5767